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4.0 AVERAGE
4.0 AVERAGE
this was a great book but i didn’t really like gray Lolz. he just seemed like the nice guy stereotype i was hoping for him to have more depth. this book was also really white
dark
emotional
fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven:
A mix
Strong character development:
Yes
Loveable characters:
Yes
Diverse cast of characters:
Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus:
Yes
Content Warnings
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
sad
medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven:
A mix
Strong character development:
Yes
Loveable characters:
Yes
Diverse cast of characters:
Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus:
Yes
I’m glad this is available for young girls to read. I enjoyed it
Love love loved this.
Being a girl is tough. No don't get me wrong I know boys have a tough time with certain things too but still in this day and age there is still a lot of gender stereotypical things to be scene.
Some of which are highlighted well in this book.
Marin is a brilliant protagonist and I think she reflects what many teenagers think and feel at that time in their lives.
And I have to admit I have a major soft spot for Gray. When you read the story you'll know what I mean.
Over all this book was uplifting and inspiring.
A real treat for teens and adults alike.
Being a girl is tough. No don't get me wrong I know boys have a tough time with certain things too but still in this day and age there is still a lot of gender stereotypical things to be scene.
Some of which are highlighted well in this book.
Marin is a brilliant protagonist and I think she reflects what many teenagers think and feel at that time in their lives.
And I have to admit I have a major soft spot for Gray. When you read the story you'll know what I mean.
Over all this book was uplifting and inspiring.
A real treat for teens and adults alike.
emotional
informative
reflective
medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven:
A mix
Strong character development:
No
Loveable characters:
Complicated
Diverse cast of characters:
No
Flaws of characters a main focus:
No
Content Warnings
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Sexism, Sexual assault, Gaslighting
Rules for Being a Girl by Candace Bushnell
Quality of Writing: 3/5
Pace: 5/5
Plot Development: 5/5
Characters: 3/5
Enjoyability: 4/5
Time to Complete: Around 3 ½ hours
Score: 4 Stars out of 5
Overview:
Rules for Being a Girl is a revolutionary and must-read young adult coming-of-age feminist novel that captures the essence of contemporary issues faced by young women today. Told from a first-person point of view, the narrative follows Marin as she navigates the complexities of adolescence, societal expectations, and her own personal growth.
The story is fast-paced and engaging, making it difficult to put down. It successfully balances entertainment with important themes surrounding feminism and the pressures young girls face in society. While the quality of writing may not be its strongest suit, the relevance of the content and the clarity of Marin’s voice make it an enjoyable read.
Marin’s journey is not just about personal discovery; it’s a profound exploration of the “rules for girls” that dictate behavior and expectations. This is a narrative that resonates deeply, particularly for those who may not have been exposed to feminist concepts during their formative years. The lessons embedded in the story are powerful and applicable to real-life situations, encouraging readers to reflect on their own experiences and the societal norms they encounter.
Although the characters could have been more fully developed, the strength of the plot and the significance of the themes more than compensate for this shortcoming. This book feels more like contemporary realistic fiction than traditional young adult literature, making it accessible to a broader audience.
Having discovered this book as a regular reader rather than an advanced copy recipient, I eagerly anticipate its growth in popularity. Rules for Being a Girl is the type of story I wish I had encountered in my teenage years, and I believe it will leave a lasting impact on its readers.
Quality of Writing: 3/5
Pace: 5/5
Plot Development: 5/5
Characters: 3/5
Enjoyability: 4/5
Time to Complete: Around 3 ½ hours
Score: 4 Stars out of 5
Overview:
Rules for Being a Girl is a revolutionary and must-read young adult coming-of-age feminist novel that captures the essence of contemporary issues faced by young women today. Told from a first-person point of view, the narrative follows Marin as she navigates the complexities of adolescence, societal expectations, and her own personal growth.
The story is fast-paced and engaging, making it difficult to put down. It successfully balances entertainment with important themes surrounding feminism and the pressures young girls face in society. While the quality of writing may not be its strongest suit, the relevance of the content and the clarity of Marin’s voice make it an enjoyable read.
Marin’s journey is not just about personal discovery; it’s a profound exploration of the “rules for girls” that dictate behavior and expectations. This is a narrative that resonates deeply, particularly for those who may not have been exposed to feminist concepts during their formative years. The lessons embedded in the story are powerful and applicable to real-life situations, encouraging readers to reflect on their own experiences and the societal norms they encounter.
Although the characters could have been more fully developed, the strength of the plot and the significance of the themes more than compensate for this shortcoming. This book feels more like contemporary realistic fiction than traditional young adult literature, making it accessible to a broader audience.
Having discovered this book as a regular reader rather than an advanced copy recipient, I eagerly anticipate its growth in popularity. Rules for Being a Girl is the type of story I wish I had encountered in my teenage years, and I believe it will leave a lasting impact on its readers.
There are so many unspoken rules for navigating high school - for navigating life, maybe - that I can't help but try to figure out which one I broke to get myself into this situation.
This book is infuriatingly relevant and important. Girls and women are told to stand up for themselves, but don't make a scene. Be confident but not aggressive.
If a teenage girl told you her male teacher tried to kiss her, how would you react? Would you tell her she misread the situation? That she's overreacting? That it was her fault it happened? Would you tell her to move on otherwise she'll ruin his life? This is what Marin faces when her teacher Mr Beckett or 'Bex' tries to make a move on her and she reports him to the school.
I'm furious - the kind of anger that could light fires and power cities, the kind that laughs at the limits of my nice-girl self-control.
Bex is popular with the students and there's no evidence of any wrongdoing. The school tells her to let it go and her classmates turn on her. Marin is overcome with self-doubt - did she do the right thing? Was it her fault after all?
But soon, doubt turns to anger and Marin is not going to let Bex win. Backed by the new feminist book club she's founded, her parents, and lacrosse bro Gray, Marin is determined to be heard.
This book is frustrating, thought-provoking and powerful. It's well written with fleshed out characters, a dash of romance and a satisfying ending.
I like to think there are different ways of being a rebel. Doing what you can with what you have, and all of that.
This book is infuriatingly relevant and important. Girls and women are told to stand up for themselves, but don't make a scene. Be confident but not aggressive.
If a teenage girl told you her male teacher tried to kiss her, how would you react? Would you tell her she misread the situation? That she's overreacting? That it was her fault it happened? Would you tell her to move on otherwise she'll ruin his life? This is what Marin faces when her teacher Mr Beckett or 'Bex' tries to make a move on her and she reports him to the school.
I'm furious - the kind of anger that could light fires and power cities, the kind that laughs at the limits of my nice-girl self-control.
Bex is popular with the students and there's no evidence of any wrongdoing. The school tells her to let it go and her classmates turn on her. Marin is overcome with self-doubt - did she do the right thing? Was it her fault after all?
But soon, doubt turns to anger and Marin is not going to let Bex win. Backed by the new feminist book club she's founded, her parents, and lacrosse bro Gray, Marin is determined to be heard.
This book is frustrating, thought-provoking and powerful. It's well written with fleshed out characters, a dash of romance and a satisfying ending.
I like to think there are different ways of being a rebel. Doing what you can with what you have, and all of that.
emotional
inspiring
fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven:
A mix
Strong character development:
Yes
Loveable characters:
Yes
Diverse cast of characters:
N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus:
No
Content Warnings
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship
The teacher at the center of the story has/has had "relationships" with multiple students of his (both at the main character's school and at his past teaching job), using his position of power to coerce them into a "relationship" with him. One character, the main character's best friend, even lies to her entire family and friend group to go on a vacation with the teacher after he convinced her that "what they had was real." It's heavily implied that they did more than kiss.
A very quick read, I almost wish it was a little bit longer and maybe explored particular plot points a bit more. I enjoyed how the main character really transformed throughout the book and how much the love interest supported her.