I don’t give low star ratings often, but this one bothers me more and more as I sit with it. “Cultish” unfortunately comes across as a half-baked attempt to capitalize on the current obsession with true crime/cults.
At best, this book is a breezy overview of a handful of major Western cults/cult-y environments. At worst, it’s a disappointing pop psych puff piece that goes out of its away to avoid the premise, barely mentioning linguistic research, analysis, or examples in favor of personal anecdotes and snarky bios of cult leaders/followers. This is a really heavy and complicated topic, so Montell’s flippant tone mixed with the irresponsible lack of scholarly research, poor organization, and narrow lens make this a “do not recommend” for me.
I feel like this book was written for me. I decided to finally start unpacking my tenuous relationship with time, and this was the perfect, no-nonsense philosophy that I needed to hear. Burkeman’s perspective is a little limited and the ideas are sometimes contradictory, but the overall takeaways (that time is not a resource to have or manage or control, it is simply life itself, moment by moment; that our mortality means we are far more limited than we delude ourselves into being, and that accepting our limitations leads to a richer and more peaceful life) are really powerful. I especially appreciated the five questions posed at the end of the book; I’ll be chewing on them for a while.