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19 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
By the end of the book it seems like how David identifies (gay straight or bisexual) is still up for debate. His decision in the end can be seen as further denial of his true self especially during times where it wasn't accepted to be anything but straight but others can interpret his decision as ending an experimental time for David.
His decision could also be symbolic of a part of himself dying much like Giovanni died.
Graphic: Death, Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Murder
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Deadnaming, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, Transphobia, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Excrement, Vomit, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Suicide attempt, Murder, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, and Classism
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.5
Julie doesnt seem to have much of a life outside of Sam even before he died. For one most of her friends are ones she met through him. The only people who don't rely on Sam's connection is her family and of course shes not close to them. The story is about her grief and moving on which I think was handled alright I really love the different portrayals of grief but the timing is super rushed. The magical realism is also really neat but as soon as others are able to talk to Sam I lost a lot of interest in the whole concept.
I think this quote shows what a lack of power Julie has throughout the book and how the book is so Sam centric when the summary leads readers to believe Julie is an autonomus character.
"He always loved having Sam around. Mr. Lee said he brought in good luck. 'What did I bring in?' I once asked him. "You brought in Sam."
Overall I really liked the portrayal of grief and most of the characters especially Oliver but Julie definitely got on my nerves. There are a lot of moments where she acknowledged her mistakes and how she should change and be less selfish then never does it until Sam pushes her to do so. She acknowledges she should be there tor Mika then only foes it when she promises Sam she will. I think it's dumb that Julie's only solution to get Mika to not be upset at her was to show her she could call Sam.<endspoiler That seemed like a big step for something where there should have been other solutions.
One small thing that really got on my nerves was Julie acknowledging she only thought professional script writers got to where they were because of nepotism(privileged life) when the professor talks to her about classes she can take at her mom's college, which are typically reserved for seniors, but he shows an interest because her mom: a professor at that school brags about her writingand Julie doesnt even blink an eye at her own priveledged life.
I also wish that the author expanded more on some of the cultural rituals of grieving death. This book is definitely a guilty pleasure though.
Oliver, Tristan and Mika seemed like really neat characters and it really bummed me out we didnt get a lot of time with them. I think the author really should have spent a little more time on the epilogue. The grief was the entire book so it felt frustrating to get so little after going through so much of Julie's journey, at least she's dating so that's good.
Pros: overall cool characters, the writing style flows well, the imagery is cute, the magical realism is sweet, great depiction of grieving and the ways people may grieve,
Cons: too many clichés, selfish characters, the timing is bad, unrealistic situations (I don't mean the magic part), a lot characters aren't three dimensional
I gave it 2.5 stars for the pros and the fact that I'm not the target demographic for this YA book
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
2.25
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.75
The commentary on how awful the embedded misogyny(machismo) in Latino culture is was great but besides that point MC didn't have a lot of valid complaints in my opinion. The comparisons made between her and Olga seemed kind of weak. I feel like if we had seen Olga alive more it would have felt more impactful but because we didn't it just seemed like her mom made comparisons because the author had nothing else for MC to go through instead of it feeling like mom's actual opinions.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.25
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Violence, Blood, and Death of parent
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.75
One of the characters was in the special education class and casually called the r word repeatedly. Her health is made fun of too. Women are higly sexualized with little to no personality.
The representation in this book is terrible. Some good things in the book but it is definitely annoying and gross.
Graphic: Body horror, Gun violence, and Violence
Moderate: Ableism, Bullying, Cursing, Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, Car accident, and Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, and Murder
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Body horror, Gore, Self harm, Torture, Violence, Vomit, Religious bigotry, Medical trauma, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Deadnaming, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Homophobia, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Self harm, Blood, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Murder, Gaslighting, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Animal death and Gun violence