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41 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Self harm, Toxic relationship, and Violence
5.0
Graphic: Violence
Moderate: Child abuse, Terminal illness, Sexual harassment, Sexism, Xenophobia, and Death of parent
Minor: Pedophilia
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Sexual violence, Murder, Violence, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Death, Suicide attempt, Animal death, Rape, Torture, and Homophobia
Moderate: Transphobia, Death of parent, and Xenophobia
Did not finish book. Stopped at 25%.
3.25
I'm aromantic, so naturally I'm very aware of love's many names and definitions. I appreciated hooks' critiques of how much we value romantic love and her calls for community and acceptance of each other. I also, as a young feminist, find many of her critiques of how we view masculinity and gender roles still very relevant and well-said.
But as well, I found she often went to places in her writing where she lost me. I didn't expect her to talk so heavily about spirituality, and specifically her experience as a Christian. While I agree that community through spirituality can bring many people joy and fulfillment, as a pagan I found myself becoming annoyed when she began speaking on her belief in the importance of spiritual faith. I often wasn't sure whether hooks was attempting to make simple commentary, or to dispense advice, and it made it harder to take in her words.
I was sold this book as a new, refreshing look on love, but I felt more like it was a call to enlightenment with no real answers, often contradictory between chapters, and ended with me with a strange taste in my mouth.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Hate crime, Sexual harassment, Toxic relationship, Outing, Religious bigotry, Infidelity, Sexism, Alcohol, Violence, Transphobia, Homophobia, and Misogyny
Moderate: Pregnancy and Sexual content
Minor: Confinement
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Gaslighting, Grief, Confinement, and Death of parent
Moderate: Fire/Fire injury and War
Minor: Child abuse and Blood
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
Moderate: Violence and Death
Minor: Grief and Abandonment
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Gaslighting, Mental illness, Misogyny, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Addiction, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Toxic friendship, Adult/minor relationship, Bullying, Rape, Suicide, and Domestic abuse
Minor: Classism, War, and Confinement
Did not finish book.