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My Friends

Fredrik Backman

4.54 AVERAGE

emotional funny hopeful lighthearted sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
adventurous emotional funny reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

1morechapter27's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH: 11%

I couldn’t with the type of writing. I can’t explain it I just wanted to the plot to love forward without every other line trying to be deep? Also how many time in 48 pages do I have to know the age of the characters or read the word fart? I’m wondering if I should even try other books by this author. 
emotional funny inspiring reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
emotional slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

I don’t quite know how to rate this book. Its themes and characters resonated with me in profound ways, but the novel is not without its flaws.

Fredrick Backman is a master of making me emotional. When I first started this novel I was uncertain of if I would resonate with the themes. I’ve never given much thought or resonated much with the profound value of art, but by the end of the novel I was in tears thinking about it. 

I’ve always been someone who loves to write but I’ve always thought that I would never be able to make a career of it. So I’ve been looking to go into more lucrative fields. I don’t know if it’s too dramatic to say that this book may have changed my outlook on my future and the art I have the potential to create but I truly think it might have. 

There were times when Backman’s writing felt a little too manipulative or a little too intent on giving the readers a plot twist. 

I know that that criticism should be enough to disqualify this book from a five star review but in the words of Backman “it’s easy to be a critic, anyone can do that. But art doesn’t need critics, art has enough enemies already. Art needs friends.”


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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes

Wouldn't change a thing. I listened to this on audiobook and the narrator has a wonderful voice and does an excellent job bringing the humour of the writing forward, while tackling difficult topics such as foster care, loneliness, grief, and found family.
dark funny hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
adventurous medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional funny inspiring sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes