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Like Water for Chocolate by Laura Esquivel

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Los personajes resaltan por sus diferentes personalides. El libro es una crítica de tradiciones machistas y al mismo tiempo es una carta de amor a la cultura y cocina mexicana. Mamá Elena es mi personaje menos preferido. Es una mujer santurrona e imponente. La tradición indica que Tita nunca debe de casarse porque como la hija menor es su responsabilidad  cuidar de su madre toda su vida. Esta costumbre es la raiz de los demás eventos de la historia. 

Tita tiene dos hermanas. De todas las hermanas Rosaura es la que mas me recuerda a Mamá Elena. Las dos se preocupan mas por las apariencas que el bienestar emocional de ellas mismas y los demas. Causan mucho sufrimiento a Tita y aquellos a su alrededor por esto. Nunca terminan siendo felices al final de la historia tampoco. De las hermanas mi favorita fue Gertrudis. Tiene la oportunidad de escaparse del rancho de su madre antes que Tita.
Termina trabajando en un burdel, pero esto no se le convierte en una limitación. Ella eventualmente se convierte en una general de la revolución mexicana. También logra encontrar el amor.
Creo que es un mensaje muy progresivo y feminista. Es muy común en historias asi que a las mujeres se les castigue por la promiscuidad. Fue refrescante ver que ese no fue el caso aqui.

Adicionalmente, las relaciones de raza se embarcan como tema en esta maravillosa historia.  Eventualmente se revela algo muy importante sobre el origen de Gertrudis.
Se descubre que Mamá Elena tuvo una relación secreta con un hombre mulato produciendole el embarazo con Gertrudis. Fue producto Gertrudis de una infidelidad. Cuando el esposo de Mamá Elena supo de la infidelidad y que Gerturdis no era su hija, tuvo un infarto y murió.
Este trama secundario revela el racismo existente en México durante la era de la revolución. Además, enseña que apesar de ser tan estricta con sus hijas, Mamá Elena es hipócrita. Ella violó muchas normas sociales y en el proceso de no ser feliz ella intentó diseminarle esa miseria a sus hijas. Lo mas frustrante de esto es que el descubrimiento no es hecho hasta que Mamá Elena no está para tomar responsabilidad por sus acciones.

Mamá Elena es un ejemplo de las cadenas generacionales que no permiten que crezca ni progrese su familia. Rosaura intenta continuar esta tradición imponente con su hija, Esperanza. Creo que esto es una reflección de como la lealtad ciega a la tradición aveces tiene que romperse para poder mejorar las vidas de las generaciones futuras. Esto es una decisión que tiene que tomarse de manera activa. Sino, terminanos repitiendo los mis errores de nuestros antepasados.

El Dr. John Brown es un personaje que es importante dentro de la historia. Le sirve a Tita como una revelación de la vida que puede tener fuera del rancho. Le permite tener a Tita el espacio de formar una identidad independiente a su madre. De muchas maneras Tita representa lo opuesto de Mamá Elena y Rosaura. Es una mujer que crea su propio camino y eventualmente llega a tener la felicidad que Mamá Elena y Rosaura nunca tuvieron por su lealtad a la tradición.

Este libro es un tributo bello a la cocina y la cultura mexicana. Al mismo tiempo, sirve de crítica de las tradiciones que pueden causar un retraso para las generaciónes futuras. Tita está basada en una tía abuela de la autora y que nunca terminó casándose. Me imagino que este es un final mas feliz que Laura Esquivel hubiera querido para su tía abuela.

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emotional lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I adore magical realism; I would say it was the first great literary love of my adult life. I am happy to slip into the suspension of disbelief required and allow myself to be cocooned by the fantastic; to experience characters as archetypes and motifs who are driven by fate rather than as drivers of their own narratives. I  enjoy this... To a point.

For these reasons, Like Water For Chocolate has been on my to-read list for over a decade. Maybe this long lead time resulted in my expectations being too high, because I was very disappointed in this novel.

I loved the fairytale-like lyricism and outlandish surrealism of the grand magical moments. I didn't even mind the thinness of the novel's premise regarding the tyrannical monstrosity of Mama Elena, the archetypal wicked witch/evil stepmother despite being the biological parent of Tita, the MC. Their relationship and her cruelty she inflicted on her family was the heart of the novel for me, and I think that the novel really went off the rails after
her death
.

What I struggled with was the limpness of Tita's character, and the febrile hollowness of the love story between her and Pedro. While the passivity of Tita serves the plot, and is required for the emotional outbursts of magic in her cooking to carry any weight, it makes her incapable of action to the point of unlikeability. 

Similarly, while the romance between her and Pedro is heightened and inflamed, at no point are we shown *why* these two are in love with each other beyond their unresolved physical attraction towards each other. Pedro's character is weak and spineless as several other characters make a point of lampshading, and there is no explanation as to why Tita would remain in love with him once this weakness is revealed to her. 

The scene in which their love is
finally consummated reads more like a rape scene than passionate lovemaking.
It really soured the rest of the book for me as well as Tita ultimately deciding to
choose Pedro over John (although I recognise that John was also a skeezy and duplicitous character who was essentially grooming a vulnerable teenager).


Although I was grateful that the book was quite short, I found the huge time jump annoying and gratuitous. I also didn't understand what the resolution of this book was trying to say. Was it a happy ending, or a tragedy? Is the power of true love inevitable? Or was it just a rushed resolution that shoehorned in the Chekhov's gun of an extended proverb that was introduced for no reason halfway through the book? (This. It was this.)

In summary, I do not understand why this is such a lauded example of the magical realism genre from a female Latinx perspective when Isabel Allende is RIGHT THERE.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I loved the way the recipes drove the story from the heart of the home - the kitchen. I truly felt like I was reading a gossipy magazine as I took in the stories of Tita and the surrounding cast of characters. 

This book is short and keeps you coming back for more, wondering what Tita will cook up next. 

While I did really enjoy this, I really struggled with the unloveable characters.
I kept hoping they would learn or do better and change, but the moment never came, not even in the end. Tita is a spineless simp with bad taste in men and Pedro isn't worth the ingredients used to cook his meals.
Despite that, I still did enjoy myself with the wild tales that came out of this one!

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adventurous emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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adventurous challenging dark emotional inspiring mysterious reflective sad tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

this book was a very, very wild and surprising ride :) I believe it tackled important topics (such as traditions, expectations, society, mental health? etc.) and was surprisingly very sex-positive, open-minded and not-so-surprisingly magical. Not a fan of the love story, but it does make sense and tells an interesting story.

I haven't decided whether I genuinely liked it or not yet, but it was such an interesting read and very, very unpredictable. I'm glad I picked it up hihi

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dark slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Loveable characters: No

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dark emotional sad tense
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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emotional funny hopeful sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

This is not really my type of book. I am glad that I have read it, but I was not a fan of the structure or the characters. The story was tragic, but also over the top. However, I have enjoyed books that were inspired by this book. I know that it is an influential text and that is why I settled on 3 stars. 

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isarza's review

3.5
emotional fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

The way Tita's feelings are portrayed through food is really lovely. It's a romantic novel set on the 1910s in Mexico during revolutionary years with a little magical realism. Be aware it has its fare amount of internal misogyny and problematic tropes tho. 

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