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zoe_archambault's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Homophobia and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Outing
rhiannekx's review against another edition
3.0
Moderate: Suicide, Mental illness, and Suicide attempt
h_motionless's review against another edition
5.0
This book provides immediate help for someone in a crisis, but also provides ways to maintain a healthy mental state. Hearing this come from Daniel Howell, someone I have looked up to for many years, was a very therapeutic experience, as if it was coming from an old friend.
I have only positive things to say about this book. Despite its very serious subject matter, Daniel makes the reading experience really enjoyable with his iconic humour. The audiobook also adds a lot to it.
Graphic: Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, and Homophobia
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Suicide attempt, Grief, and Addiction
izzyslittlelibrary's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Cursing, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide
Moderate: Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Grief, Toxic relationship, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Addiction, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Car accident, Drug abuse, Drug use, Self harm, and Suicide attempt
rory_john14's review against another edition
2.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Bullying, and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Suicide, Suicide attempt, Ableism, Addiction, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Child abuse, Death, Drug use, Drug abuse, Grief, Hate crime, and Outing
Minor: Emotional abuse, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
ferretspies's review
5.0
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Medical content
aliceloyallaleon's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Mental illness, Homophobia, and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Grief, Homophobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide attempt
peeniewallie's review
4.0
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Emotional abuse
Minor: Death, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Homophobia
kleinearmee's review
4.5
Graphic: Bullying, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Grief, Homophobia, Suicide, and Suicide attempt
booksandbigideas's review against another edition
This book is careful in the science as well as acknowledging the impact and limitations of socioeconomic status and other factors, offering suggestions to adapt the advice to fit different circumstances, and always pointing out (almost to the point it can seem repetitive if you are reading it in order) when things may be severe enough that you should seek some sort of professional help and the distinctions between general advice and psychiatric treatment/therapy. (I also appreciated the inclusion of the effects of menstruation and hormone-affecting drugs, addressed in a gender-neutral way!) While I am a nerd delighted in the scientific and academic references (if I was still teaching, I would totally use “neurons that fire together wire together” when getting my students to make connections.), I think more casual readers will find it MUCH more approachable. It is designed to be easy and even soothing to read with exercises to return to.
His own examples and brief stories are there (and the introduction is a personal essay), as well as his usual humor to lighten the mood, but it isn’t heavy on the memoir aspects because it is meant to be as accessible to anyone, though plenty of references are there. (That said, the strategy of seeming more approachable and less intimidating by using himself as an example didn’t exactly work on me because I too am a queer socially anxious perfectionist constantly worrying, so instead of humorously roasting himself, I felt like he was also roasting me. Well, good to know my neuroses aren’t unique, I guess.) It is absolutely meant to be a starting guide and a reference...I listened to it on audio (shoutout Libro.fm!) which was enjoyable and had some bonus content (including a Q&A...and a cursed ASMR improv that I admit I didn’t make through), though it is harder to navigate and go back to different points without bookmarking them.
As someone who heavily despaired at the beginning of this year and has been on my own life-changing journey confronting my mental health (again) and authenticity, it’s great to know I’m not alone. This book and A.S. King’s SWITCH—as well as accompanying interviews and events—really made this Mental Health Awareness month personally impactful. (And now I’m closing it with Nicolle Melleby’s new book HOW TO BECOME A PLANET, about childhood depression and queerness!)
Moderate: Suicide attempt, Panic attacks/disorders, Homophobia, and Mental illness
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Grief, Toxic relationship, Suicide, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual content, and Medical content