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I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships
Michael S. Sorensen
4.02 AVERAGE
134 reviews for:
I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships
Michael S. Sorensen
4.02 AVERAGE
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Interssanter Blick auf Kommunikation, vor allem die "Fallen" waren recht erhellend.
informative
I Hear You is a simple, straight-forward book on an approach to communication that can improve all of your relationships. The techniques are laid out in clear, plain language and can be applied to every type of interaction with all everyone from coworkers to children to customers to significant others. It's advice that everyone can use to improve their daily interactions.
This is exactly that kind of resource I was searching for. While doing some casual Google research on how to communicate better with people I stumbled upon a short and sweet article on Michael Sorensen's website about how to validate someone when you don't agree with them (something I was specifically looking for advice on). I immediately ordered his book after reading the article and its advice.
I think that I'm a good listener, but there is a big difference between listening and understanding, and VALIDATING. That's the key, and this book does an excellent job in only 140 pages of outlining how to validate people you are communicating with. There are lots of examples to demonstrate his simple Four-Step Method, and he explains the principles in a very plain and not-snobbish way.
This book aims to help you improve your relationships with others, be it a family member, a coworker, a romantic partner, or even a stranger, through communication that is empathetic and honest; to have conversations where people feel heard and not judged, and that allow you to help others in the way that they need. It will even help you navigate conflict with others by allowing both parties to be acknowledged and getting closer to the root cause of the conflict.
Sometimes I don't do the best job of responding to my loved ones in the most validating way, but I had no idea how to go about changing that. It's the worst feeling when someone tells you they feel like they aren't being understood when they confide in you. This book gave me so many pointers and guidelines to help me improve that aspect of my communication. Validation was that "certain something" that I was lacking in interactions but couldn't verbally pinpoint. I feel more confident that I'll be better able to support my loved ones, and I hope that I can practice applying these principles to my interactions and become a more trustworthy and supportive person.
I think everyone would benefit from reading this, and definitely recommend it if you're looking for a self-help book to improve your communication skills/relationships!
I think that I'm a good listener, but there is a big difference between listening and understanding, and VALIDATING. That's the key, and this book does an excellent job in only 140 pages of outlining how to validate people you are communicating with. There are lots of examples to demonstrate his simple Four-Step Method, and he explains the principles in a very plain and not-snobbish way.
This book aims to help you improve your relationships with others, be it a family member, a coworker, a romantic partner, or even a stranger, through communication that is empathetic and honest; to have conversations where people feel heard and not judged, and that allow you to help others in the way that they need. It will even help you navigate conflict with others by allowing both parties to be acknowledged and getting closer to the root cause of the conflict.
Sometimes I don't do the best job of responding to my loved ones in the most validating way, but I had no idea how to go about changing that. It's the worst feeling when someone tells you they feel like they aren't being understood when they confide in you. This book gave me so many pointers and guidelines to help me improve that aspect of my communication. Validation was that "certain something" that I was lacking in interactions but couldn't verbally pinpoint. I feel more confident that I'll be better able to support my loved ones, and I hope that I can practice applying these principles to my interactions and become a more trustworthy and supportive person.
I think everyone would benefit from reading this, and definitely recommend it if you're looking for a self-help book to improve your communication skills/relationships!
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Simple, succinct, and important. I’d like to think I used to be a lot better at this, but getting older has changed my feedback to be less validating. I empathize naturally, but am quick to offer advice and ask leading questions. Maybe I’ve just grown hard toward what I perceive as complaining which is just simply a person’s need to be heard and validated. I loved this book because it made me realize I need to look at how I respond more closely.
I’m curious how the author would advise when you are personally tired of someone constantly looking for validation and enjoys venting to you. It can be very heavy and wear on you. Having some ideas of how to handle that situation would be nice, but maybe that’s more about creating boundaries than it is about validation?
I’m curious how the author would advise when you are personally tired of someone constantly looking for validation and enjoys venting to you. It can be very heavy and wear on you. Having some ideas of how to handle that situation would be nice, but maybe that’s more about creating boundaries than it is about validation?
SUPER quick and insightful read. Nothing earth shattering but just a really good reminder as we each come across not only the difficult conversations but also everyday opportunities for connection.
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