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3.99 AVERAGE
3.99 AVERAGE
Reading through this for a second time, there are some helpful points to think about in terms of being a thoughtful partner and knowing your partner well, but I struggle with the super gendered roles presented and the idea that the 5 love languages can fix almost everything, including an example of what could be considered an unhealthy and potentially abusive relationship.
Interesting reading, worth a read during your seven year itch. But I really hated his writing style - I think he was striving for a 3rd grade level. The stories of how his love languages theory completely turned around marriages were a little pat. And don't get me started on the annoying gender stereotypes. Definitely pop psych, no evidence to back it up whatsoever, but it's still good food for thought.
Well this was surprising! I really thought the Kentucky Fried Chicken voice and cheesy piano interludes would put me off of this book.
But no, I surprisingly enjoyed myself.
I liked the practicality of the book. Chapman not only talked about the concepts, but offered examples of how to implement his concepts. I actually really appreciated that, even if a lot of the practical examples made me cringe a little bit.
Yeah, the book came off as cringey sometimes. Really, really cringey. And I don't know that I'll ever apply any of the suggestions in my personal life. But it was still pretty informative, and pretty helpful.
But no, I surprisingly enjoyed myself.
I liked the practicality of the book. Chapman not only talked about the concepts, but offered examples of how to implement his concepts. I actually really appreciated that, even if a lot of the practical examples made me cringe a little bit.
Yeah, the book came off as cringey sometimes. Really, really cringey. And I don't know that I'll ever apply any of the suggestions in my personal life. But it was still pretty informative, and pretty helpful.
challenging
hopeful
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
fast-paced
Short book with very simple but useful concept for all human relationships and wht they fail/work. Can be applied to any relationship, from work to parent-chuld, not just spouses.
My high mark is mainly due to shoet format & that ut made me want to read further into the series, and make effort with relationships despite my constitution & feelings, but just because i already saw it works.
My high mark is mainly due to shoet format & that ut made me want to read further into the series, and make effort with relationships despite my constitution & feelings, but just because i already saw it works.
Content Warnings
Minor: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Violence
Christian undertones, but tolerable
Most of this is common sense but will still be helpful and insightful to those who may be feeling a bit stuck or hopeless in their relationships!
To be frank, this should be mandatory reading for anyone engaged in relating to other humans, therefore, everyone.
informative
This book was given to us at our wedding. Though the author can be a little full of himself and there were 2 small spots that were Christianity based (I'm not a fan of advice books that work under the assumption that you have to be Christian to live a good life) the overall principles of the book were easy to conceptualize and put into practice. It makes sense essentially.
Haven't tried any advice at this time but interesting concept. It is probably good to keep in mind that people express their love in different ways and different people are looking for different things. By opening a dialogue with your partner, adapting, and focusing on what they say they need, you can improve your relationship. It's also important to remember that love is an active, daily choice and not something people fall into.
