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Come as you are

Emily Nagoski

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Audiobook!
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This book was seriously oversold, but I'm glad so many women found it transformative. I certainly learned new things, and perhaps my sex life will be impacted positively, but transformed? Naw. I think I would have liked this book more if Nagoski had gone a little deeper into explaining the science before offering her own interpretation or narrative. I'm really great with concrete examples, less great with long extended metaphors. Ah well.
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4.5 stars. This book actually took me two years to complete- which has much less to do with the quality or content of the book than the fact that even if I’m engaged, I almost never pick up non-fiction to read. But every time I sat down to read, I found passages worth highlighting. Determined to make headway, I picked up from page 109 yesterday and completed it (p 324) tonight. I thoroughly enjoyed and learned from this book and only wish I would have had it 20 years ago. Dr. Nagoski weaves science references with her own case studies and useful metaphors in a familiar, conversational manner. There were a couple of chapters that dragged a bit, though I acknowledge it may just be because those weren’t as relevant to me. I found the book very approachable and revelatory - and yet my biggest takeaway seems so obvious - that your sexuality is your own and prioritizing your experiences over your expectations will help you have a confident and joyful sex life.
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