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The Vegetarian very uniquely explores patriarchal power systems and socialization in addition to the complexity and difficulty of finding release from said systems. This book will make you uncomfortable and see the unfortunate pieces of reality many endure, especially considering the cultural setting of the novel.
Graphic: Mental illness, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence
This isn’t a feel good book about women choosing their own path, this is the unfiltered version we get of seeing what men really think about us & how they treat us, doesn’t matter if you’re related to them or not.
Reading this r*** scenes in this book were like jump scares, so hard hitting and so scary for the protagonist who throughout just wants to express her own choice. I saw a lot of people reviewing this book based on being vegan & how the idea of choice and not fitting into society is limiting them, but I’m not vegan, I can only rate this on being a woman & going the drastic measure for the need of choice.
The men in this novel treat the protagonist like a piece of meat, exactly what she’s trying to remove herself from, they see her as just her body & how much she can offer to the men for their hard work but all she wants is just a peaceful life until the death she wants with the lack of food.
Starving herself until the end she believes can remove her from the suffering she has to put up with on earth and through her dreams that even her sister starts to experience. It’s interesting how it was her sister that experienced it but no perspective from the mum, almost like the younger generation of women have the choice of freedom or confinement & they choice freedom. But their mum’s generation didn’t have that choice so stuck with the confinement to an abusive father.
All in all, a part of me is not happy I like this book with how brutal the women were put through, but I do believe it has its importance as a great feminist literary read, esp written by a woman with male character’s being expressed by a woman.
Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide attempt
Minor: Abandonment
Graphic: Body horror, Eating disorder, Infidelity, Mental illness, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Violence, Vomit, Medical content, Medical trauma
Moderate: Rape
the prose and the images created by the author are so beautiful
the things that happen are horrible and found myself very upset reading them, so withdrew from the story in order to protect my sanity/feelings
i can understand that people love it but it just makes me depressed that this is the norm for women in this world
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault
One single choice causes such extreme reactions in the men in Yeong-hye’s life. Having the perspective of Yeong-hye’s husband was violent in and of itself, outside of his later actions. I was really affected by him. I hated him and I hated being inside his head. The three different narrative perspectives of the book (Yeong-hye’s huband, brother-in-law, and sister) emphasized that we never got Yeong-hye’s perspective of her own story; we never got to enter into her mind at all apart from brief vignettes from her nightmares. It’s a story full of other people’s opinions on her choices that are coloured by their own biases, thoughts, beliefs, and life experiences. She has no voice.
I think for me it was ultimately about control and body autonomy; being able to make decisions about and for your body. I would love to be able to go back to my English lit courses in university and analyze this one with other people. It is massively open to interpretation and every reader will get something different from this book. What I know for certain is that it was deeply affecting and I understand if this is either hated or loved.
Graphic: Body horror, Rape, Sexual assault
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Body horror, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Forced institutionalization, Blood, Vomit, Schizophrenia/Psychosis
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Eating disorder, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Blood, Suicide attempt, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Injury/Injury detail
The book is split into three sections that felt like 3 smaller novellas that happened to converge on the same subject (the tonal shift and shift in narrator perspective between the each section was so pronounced that I wonder if in fact this was originally written as three separate works?) Yeong-Hye is the titular vegetarian, but feels more like a secondary character as each section follows one of three of her close-relations; her husband, Mr. Cheong, her unnamed brother-in-law, and her sister, In-Hye.
The pacing in the first section is slow, but I think there is enough curiosity built around the main-character's conversion to vegetarianism and her subsequent mental health spiral that the pace doesn't end up feeling torturous. More than the other two sections, the first section felt like there was some social commentary that I was missing. I know there is a lot of tension around gender relations in S. Korea now, as there had been in 2016 when the book was published, and it seems unlikely that Mr. Cheong's selfishness, solipsism, and general disregard for his wife's well-being would be unrelated to that broader context.
Sections two and three felt more "universal." Without spoiling too much, after a major traumatic incident, Yeong-Hye's brother-in-law develops an obsessive sexual interest in her. His selfishness is more subtle, less intentional, and more interesting.
The third section, which follows Yeong-Hye's older sister, In-Hye, was both the saddest and most relatable. The only person to show genuine concern for Yeong-Hye's, In-Hye struggles with her own more understated mental health problems. The writing in this section was more fluid and more challenging, flowing freely and rapidly between past and present. The language in this section was more poetic, and despite being incredibly depressing, was my favorite section to read.
I don't think this book is right for everyone, but I would selfishly recommend it as I am curious to hear as many perspectives on this story as I can. I would suggest that sensitive readers check the content warnings as some of the subject material was difficult.
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Chronic illness, Blood
Moderate: Eating disorder, Sexual assault
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Eating disorder, Gore, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Blood, Medical content, Suicide attempt, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Injury/Injury detail
Ich finde, dass dieses Buch versucht gesellschaftliche Themen zu behandeln und zu kritisieren.
Die Darstellung und Kritik vom Patriarchat und dem Sexismus finde ich wirklich gelungen, da es die extrem verstörende Seiten davon aufgezeigt hat.
Das Thema von toxischen und autoritären familiären Beziehungen finde ich im großen Teilen auch gut behandelt und kritisiert, aber die Auswirkungen auf die beiden Schwestern kamen zu kurz für mich.
Schließlich liegt meine größte Kritik in der Darstellung von psychischen Krankheiten. Meiner Meinung nach ist diese Darstellung sehr stigmatisiert und zeigt fast nur wie psychische Krankheiten die Nahestehenden der erkrankten Person betreffen, statt mehr darauf einzugehen, wie es den Erkrankten ergeht. Auch wurde der Erkrankten irgendwann unterschwellig die Menschlichkeit abgesprochen, was ich stark kritisiere.
Die wenigen Szenen, wo die Sicht einer psychisch Erkrankten behandelt wurde, kamen viel zu kurz, um den Rest auszugleichen.
Dein Schreibstil fand ich gut und sehr passend für diese Geschichte. Meine einzige Kritik ist hier, dass ich einen Abschnitt mittig im Buch zu lang gezogen fand.
Insgesamt ist es also ein gut geschriebenes Buch, welches mehrere Themen wirklich gut behandelt, aber das Thema von psychischen Krankheiten einfach sehr unpassend behandelt. Somit habe ich drei Sterne vergeben.
Graphic: Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Suicide attempt
Moderate: Eating disorder, Vomit
Minor: Dementia, Death of parent