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trippalli's review
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
relaxing
slow-paced
4.75
Excellent reflection of the joys of being alone; the variety of experiences we do alone and ways to try new experiences alone.. Many philosophical reflections, historical examples and inspirations. Excellent.
koberreads's review
informative
reflective
slow-paced
4.25
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nithou's review against another edition
4.0
Quite an interesting take on something we all forgot in this century. I really liked and learned quite a thing or two from this book, and it made me want to get out of my comfort zone and try to spend some alone time. Still I was expecting a bit more but can't tell exactly what.
barrettcmyk's review
2.0
Picked this one up at the library -- it was sitting at the checkout counter when I got there, and since I already had "how to be happy" (which was excellent,
go read it) in my hands, I guess I figured this dovetailed in some way. Worst case, I hoped this might help me find some new ways to carve out alone time (driving down the toll road doesn't count thanks) and maybe be a bit more... Centered? Clearer?
Anyhow. Maitland is a woman who, after living a good portion of her life surrounded by a large group of family and friends, decided to move to a very very rural area of Scotland. As in, 20 minutes to the nearest shop, rural. In the book she partially talks about why she chose the lifestyle, but mostly she's making a case for why we shouldn't fear solitude, as a society. She does a brief whiz through history and famous loners (secular and religious), which is interesting. Moreso is the point she raises about our contradictory views on aloneness: how can we fear doing things alone or being alone, or have negative connotations with aloneness... While at the same time champion independence? Or the creativity that often comes from solitude?
Maitland offers up a few little nuggets on how to be alone (spoiler: take small steps), but mostly the book aims to confront the perception that being alone is somehow a bad thing. Nothing earth shattering here, but an interesting idea in itself.
go read it) in my hands, I guess I figured this dovetailed in some way. Worst case, I hoped this might help me find some new ways to carve out alone time (driving down the toll road doesn't count thanks) and maybe be a bit more... Centered? Clearer?
Anyhow. Maitland is a woman who, after living a good portion of her life surrounded by a large group of family and friends, decided to move to a very very rural area of Scotland. As in, 20 minutes to the nearest shop, rural. In the book she partially talks about why she chose the lifestyle, but mostly she's making a case for why we shouldn't fear solitude, as a society. She does a brief whiz through history and famous loners (secular and religious), which is interesting. Moreso is the point she raises about our contradictory views on aloneness: how can we fear doing things alone or being alone, or have negative connotations with aloneness... While at the same time champion independence? Or the creativity that often comes from solitude?
Maitland offers up a few little nuggets on how to be alone (spoiler: take small steps), but mostly the book aims to confront the perception that being alone is somehow a bad thing. Nothing earth shattering here, but an interesting idea in itself.
readingfarandwide's review against another edition
4.0
This book was very useful, but I agree with the other reviewers who said that the author was trying too hard to convince us readers that being alone is a good thing. I didn't mind that so much because I was on the fence for such a long time about this question and I did need a little bit of extra convincing. However, this book is really more of an introduction to the topic rather than an in-depth guide that I was hoping for. She spends much of the book defending her preference of living alone instead of giving useful insights into the solitary lifestyle. I must note that the bibliography at the end of the book and the 'homework' section is excellent! All in all, I think anyone who is interested in the topic should read this book as it is a great introduction, but you will enjoy it only if your expectations are not too high and you don't expect that this book changes your life.
mmcintyre17's review against another edition
4.0
Intriguing introduction to the theme of solitude and why it is so often stigmatized in modern society. Maitland also provides a list of further resources for self-study. I found it comforting and inspiring in such a time as this.
tiny_mimi's review against another edition
3.0
More of a "why should you be alone" rather than a "how to be alone" book! BUT in saying that, still a pretty interesting read :)
sheyda's review against another edition
3.0
چگونه از تنهایی لذت ببریم اثر خانم سارا میتلند و ترجمه خانم سما قرایی -از سری کتاب های «مدرسه زندگی»- کتابی است در باب تنهایی که بیشتر پیشینه نگرش مردم نسبت به تنهایی را بررسی می کند.
بر خلاف دیگر کتاب های راهنما و self-help، این کتاب ابتدا همه مسائل منفی را از سر راه بر می دارد سپس از مزایا و لذات وافر تنهایی صحبت می کند.
بیان داستان ترکیب فلسفی و علمی بود که شخصا از آن لذت بردم.
برخی نقل قول ها فوق‌العاده بودند طوری که من رو به فکر فرو می بردند و باعث می شدند سریع دفترم را برداشته و از آن ها نت بردارم.
ترجمه نسبتا خوب بود اما «بعضی جاها» در فهم مطالب به مشکل بر می خوردم و باید بر می گشتم دوباره از اول می خواندم تا متوجه شوم.
در آخرین گفتار کتاب، کتاب ها یا رمان های برتر خارجی دیگر مضمون «تنهایی» معرفی شده اند.
بر خلاف دیگر کتاب های راهنما و self-help، این کتاب ابتدا همه مسائل منفی را از سر راه بر می دارد سپس از مزایا و لذات وافر تنهایی صحبت می کند.
بیان داستان ترکیب فلسفی و علمی بود که شخصا از آن لذت بردم.
برخی نقل قول ها فوق‌العاده بودند طوری که من رو به فکر فرو می بردند و باعث می شدند سریع دفترم را برداشته و از آن ها نت بردارم.
ترجمه نسبتا خوب بود اما «بعضی جاها» در فهم مطالب به مشکل بر می خوردم و باید بر می گشتم دوباره از اول می خواندم تا متوجه شوم.
در آخرین گفتار کتاب، کتاب ها یا رمان های برتر خارجی دیگر مضمون «تنهایی» معرفی شده اند.