Wolynn creates an approach to trauma which involves the vicious cycle of family experience and pain. While there is undoubtedly a need for this type of literature, I worry about what people whose experiences don’t fit the heteronormative and well-meaning-but-hurt—inside will take away from reading the book.
This read helped me contemplate how much forgiveness and boundaries I wanted to incorporate in my own challenging experiences growing up. While I don’t believe one must accept and wholly forgive family. In order to heal, I believe this book has helped me understand why family members have hurt me without realizing due to their own past experiences with their families. Obviously said but harder to practice, I am grateful to have a perspective separate from avoiding family with little hope for healing. I do wish there were less antedates and more stated research, and I found myself unsure if sections were based on evidence or beliefs. Religion was brought up repeatedly, which didn’t help me, as faith is not a regular part of my life.
I’ve never found a book so aligned to the AICE Biology curriculum that presents the year’s learning in a way which is engaging, exciting, and encourages you to keep turning its pages. Highly recommended for biology teachers and students for summer reading…or those passionate about pursuing or learning about the medical field and research.
I grew up reading Green’s fiction and YouTube videos, and he quite literally got me through academically and personally dark times. When I heard this book was coming out about the Anthropocene, I thought it would be about climate change and science rather than the human experience. But nearly a decade after my last John Green novel, I am here, reading this book and remembering exactly why I loved reading him all these years ago. John Green’s compassion and deep understanding of mental health come together to paint a beautifully reflective series of reviews about the human experience. I give this book 5 stars, even if it’s because it was because I was a huge fan. Even if it’s because the teenager in me briefly revived and reminded me of how hope is around the corner. Thank you John Green, for this book.